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Yeah, about the conversational bad guys. Here is why some people are so good at lying. Most of them don’t make it past the front door.
(People like us keep them out on time. Because we have the Holy Spirit and they know it.)
But I know many are still waking up to companions and are also working with associates who know how to mess up and then clear themselves by telling a simple story. Here is why the story sounds so true all the time.
(I’m not here to help judge or crucify anyone. I just want to say hi to people who get used and tricked all the time. I believe a person should make stupid decisions because they know it is stupid and just want to be stupid. Not because someone used their head.)
So let’s see who these guys are and how they work.
They are masters at making stories during a conversation. They mess up. They know they’ve messed up. And are thinking of how to confront you. But they also know they will get out of it.
They are even more confident than you are. But why? Why should someone who has messed up be so confident?
At that time, they have nothing. No good story or excuse. But they know when they meet you they will have all they need. How is that possible? Because they just know how to forge their knowledge of the kind of person you are and the severity of the situation into a story.
Initially, what they have is an incomplete package. They have to meet you to get the rest.
So they summon the courage, and meet you, expecting to get the rest of their secret weapon which is knowing how bad the situation is.
Most of us give them just that, when someone messes up and out of anger you confront them, shouting at them because you think you “have caught them this time” you are probably just giving them what they want.
So how do you give them what they want? You may think shouting at them and making them look stupid actually puts you ‘on top.’ No, it doesn’t.
It doesn’t even scratch them when you shout. They just put on a sober look and listen to everything you say.
They are taking in what you know about the situation. Observing how angry you are and how bad the entire situation really is.
Then they make up a story out of what you do not know, spicing it up with the kind of person you are – what makes you tick and what makes you soft.
Ever wonder why they always tell the right story – all the time – leaving you confused? This is how they do it.
Don’t be confused. You’ve probably been living with or working with a conversational pro – people who can make stories while talking or listening to others.
People meet me and say he said that…, then I told him… then he said…. And after about 5 or 10 minutes, you begin to see why they got fooled. The person they were talking to used their awareness of the situation (and their emotional state) to mess with their heads.
Being cool doesn’t make you stupid. It’s hard for people to attack when they don’t know where the door is. Be cool. Act normal.
(But personally, if I can’t trust you then we can’t work well together not to even mention being in a relationship. But some of us love rolling the dice. It’s never a good idea. Consequently, it will destroy your purpose and destiny.)
I don’t want to get into the complexities of relationships and scams. I just wanted to show you why you get fooled over and over again. You’ve probably met one of them.
This article was first published on Facebook by Ekemini Robert: https://web.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=3079725818762675&set=pb.100001758627240.-2207520000..&type=3
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