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The third season of Just Us Girls, one of the hottest TV shows right now for singles (and even for married couples), is here.
If you’re new to the scene, you have missed out on a lot.
Before I proceed to share about the new season and all of that, let’s just look at a few comments on YouTube after the announcement came out for the latest season of Just Us Girls.
That should give you an idea of the reputation of this show and all it’s has been giving us for a few months now.
This is the third season of the series.
Seasons 1 & 2 are already on YouTube and you can always watch them right there to get the complete story
Today at 3:00 p.m. west African time the third season will be premiered.
What is it about the Just Us Girls series that makes it one of the best TV shows I can recommend for any single and even married people out there?
Why You Should See Just Us Girls
Just Us Girls, created by Nigerian author and speaker Mildred Okonkwo, is an empowering and faith-driven TV series exploring the lives and challenges of three main characters, Kayinsola, Onajite and Ame.
These three beautiful young ladies are grappling with decisions surrounding love, family expectations, and personal growth.
Kanyinsola, a successful doctor, hesitates in her promising relationship, struggling to reconcile her career with her love life.
Onajite, a driven entrepreneur, faces family pressure to marry, adding tension to her uncertain relationship.
Meanwhile, Ame, a devout churchgoer, finds herself at risk of being taken advantage of due to her gentle nature and loyalty to her boyfriend.
The series brings together an all-female production team and cast, underscoring Okonkwo’s mission to highlight “girl power” and the strength of women in every aspect of life.
And that is just a tip of the iceberg.
If you really want to enjoy this show here are a few things you have to understand.
Personality Types
One of them is personality types.
We have all kinds of personality types.
But we will limit them to just a few that we can work with. Examples are PTs like narcissism, conscientiousness, agreeableness, etc.
And wait wait wait, you don’t have to be an expert in any of these things.
Just a little Google Search these words will give you an idea of what these things mean so when you see them play out in the TV series, you can actually understand what is going on.
For example, the personality traits of a narcissist plays out in the life of the choir leader, Felix who was at some point dating Ame.
But because Amen had no idea what she was dealing with, she stayed on till Felix the day Felix tried to rape her.
Show like these teach you to notice these personalities and watch out for them.
Attachment Styles
Another thing that will help you enjoy this show is knowing about attachment issues.
Many young people do not know that there is such a thing as an attachment style for each individual.
And many of these attachment styles will be dysfunctional attachment styles. Examples are Anxious, avoidant, etc.
Let me show you why you need a little idea, not just because of the TV show but so you realize how to navigate life and relationships.
1. Anxious (Preoccupied) Attachment:
People with this style often feel insecure about their relationships and fear being abandoned.
They might need frequent reassurance from partners and can be overly dependent or “clingy.”
Does this sound like you? Do you know anyone like that?
It’s not the end of the world though. Like they say, “the good ones change. The bad ones pretend when things get difficult, or find excuses.”
The good ones change. The bad ones pretend when things get difficult, or find excuses.
We see a bit of this in two characters: Munachi and Onajite.
After all the lies Kayin told Muna, he probably shouldn’t have continued, but she still went on till his heart was shattered into nothing.
I can’t wait to see how they new season plays out.
2. Avoidant (Dismissive) Attachment:
Avoidant individuals value independence and tend to distance themselves emotionally.
They may feel uncomfortable with intimacy and often prefer to be self-sufficient, avoiding close emotional connections.
3. Disorganized (Fearful-Avoidant) Attachment:
This style combines anxious and avoidant traits.
People with a disorganized style may want intimacy but fear getting too close, leading to mixed or conflicting behaviors in relationships.
They often struggle with trust and regulating emotions.
Sometimes you will find a mix or variation of these attachment styles.
And if you notice any in you, simply work on them so you can become a better person in your relationships.
I won’t keep you here any longer.
The third season is here and we all just need to see it.
Here is the link to the first episode of Season 3 on YouTube.
What do you love about this TV show?
Drop your comments let’s talk.
